PROF.
BEN ONYEUKWU (REV.)
NCE(Eng.) ND/HD (Journalism); BA (Hons)
MA, PhD.
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PROBLEM OF BISHOP’S WIFE
“There
was never a man like Ahab, who sold himself to do
Evil
in the eyes of the Lord, urged on by Jezebel, his
Wife”,
(1Kings 21:25)
INTRODUCTION:
The aphorism, “beside a successful man is a woman” is only
tenable when a woman of noble character is in focus,(Proverbs 12:4). This
implies that when a woman with the spirit of Jezebel is in charge, evil reigns,
even if it is in the church. The Lord always frowns at the leadership of the
church whenever the spirit of Jezebel, in whatever guise, is allowed to take
control of the fellowship, and this he shows in His rebuke to the church in
Thyatira, (Revelation 2:20). No doubt, woman have their roles in the body of
Christ, but they should do so within the confines of the scripture, as anything
short of this gives the devil the advantage of polluting the ecclesiastical set
–up. This makes imperative to always adhere to the biblical principles that
generally govern the duties of woman in the church, especially when it pertains
to the Episcopal authority, where the bishop’s wife feels she is a stakeholder.
In this connection, therefore, the writer affirms that:
OFFICE OF BISHOP DOES
NOT REQUIRE INTERFERENCE FROM THE BISHOP’S WIFE
One
interferes in /with a situation or process when one becomes involved in it,
although it does not concern one, and this usually brings a damaging effect on
a thing or system. The Office of Bishop carries biblical rules and regulations
that make for the smooth administration of the Episcopal government of any
church. In line with the order, no Christian denomination, in past and recent
history consecrates a husband and wife as twin bishops to manage the affairs of
the church as parallel leaders, who exercise ecclesiastical authority as
equals. What is popular is the consecration of the man and not the woman, and
so, the man is the person delegated to do the work and not the woman. However,
interference plays –up when the woman erroneously feels she has the same level
of authority and function as the husband by mere chance of marriage, and goes
ahead to mindlessly stir the husband into believing the message of the spirit
of Jezebel. The result is that most policies and decisions of the church nowadays
are taken in the bedroom and not at the church council. Experience also shows
that in some cases decisions taken at church council meetings are thrown off as
a result of the opposition mounted by the bishop’s wife at home, who by her
relentless pressure succeeds in making her husband a puppet bishop in a diocese
where she subtly reigns as Jezebel, (Revelation 2:20). It is sad to note that
most decisions of transfer, promotion, demotion, budget, welfare to mention but
a few point to the bishop’s wife and not the bishop.
But,
this is not the plan of God, as the bishop’s wife by divine arrangement is the
bishop’s minister, whereas, the bishop is the minister of God. Put differently,
the bishop’s wife is his closest special assistant in conjugal maters and
devotion. As one who understands the weaknesses and strengths of the husband,
she shoulders the responsibility to passionately and ceaselessly pray for the
grace he needs to function well in office. In discharging her conjugal duties,
she becomes an epitome of love and humility which would affect the lives of the
members of their congregation and society positively as a mother, and not the
mother of the church, as most bishops’ wives are wrongly addressed. The
bishop’s wife is his helper and not his rival, she is his domestic minister and
not a co-bishop, she is a mother in the church and not the mother of the
church, her office is informed and not formal, through she can as well function
in certain official capacity in church work,
but not as a twin bishop,. This, notwithstanding, most bishops’ wives
have by their personal volition put aside these basic principles, as they now
lift up themselves above the authority of the Holy Spirit in the church, and
hitherto have attracted the wrath of God to themselves and the ministries of
their husbands, and this has resulted in the deaths of most of them and their
accomplices.
OFFICE OF BISHOP HAS NO
PLACE FOR FIRST LADY SPIRIT
The
concept of first lady is a political arrangement of the secular world and not
that of the church. The adoption of such an idea by some Christian
denominations shows the extent the devil has succeeded in pushing them out of
the contentment of what God has put in place for the church. To such
individuals and groups, it is a status-symbols to be addressed as first lady,
instead of being called a sister. They delight in the big-mummy title, instead
of being clothed with the humanity and simplicity of Christ. Yet, this crop of
persons with clear manifestations of the nature of sin claim they are
flag-bearers of the Christian faith. Nevertheless, the ascertain above does not
suggest that all who take the appellation of first lady are children of the
devil drafted to hell, but just a way of citing the source of the problem.
The
first lady spirit is in place in an Episcopal government where the bishop’s
wife is idolized as the links person to the bishop. In view of this, no member
of the congregation gets the bless of the bishop unless through her. The
bishop’s wife, therefore becomes the brain behind what goes or stops in the
church. In other words, she becomes what Jezebel was to Ahab, that is, the
stirring force responsible for every decision of the bishop, all in the name of
mother of the church. Her display of nudity and exhibitionism becomes a point
for new doctrine, just to accommodate her wayward lifestyle, and so, the spirit
of God leaves for the empty glory of bishop- mrs. It is obvious that apart from
the catholic church which suffers from a more serious problem of clerical
celibacy, the Anglican, the Methodist, the Pentecostal and other Christian
groups are guilty of the aforementioned. Thus, the need to call most modern
bishops’ wives to order, as they have turned the church into the temple of
idols for what gratify them.
OFFICE OF BISHOP
REQUIRES THE LEADERSHIP OF THE HOLY SPIRIT
The Holy
Spirit is the Chief Executive of the church. He is in charge of divine
appointments and operations of the church, a position that God never
compromises or cedes to anybody. The implication is that whenever human beings
usurp the position and functions of the Holy Spirit in the church, unpleasant
situations set in, though at the interim things may seem to be working out
well, but later would translate into noticeable decay. Suffice to say here that
because church operatives do not allow the Holy Spirit to take His proper place
in the ecclesiastical vineyard, the work of God continues to suffer undesirable
set backs.
But, if
the Holy Spirit is said to be the Chief Executive of the church, and in charge
of divine appointments, why then do Christian groups consecrate bishops whose
calling are doubtful, as well as allow their wives take upper hand in the
administration of the church? Why are such bishops’ wives not called to
question when it becomes clear that they are on the wrong path? Why do certain
bishops pay lip service to the unbiblical life style of their wives? And why do
people still identify with such denominations that have changed the glory and
Lordship of God to that of man and idols? These are painful questions that
demand the verdict of God’s Word. On this note, the writer remarks that office
of Bishop is the office of the Holy Spirit, as well as posits that the bishop
is a servant of the Lord drafted to work under the directives and supervision
of the Holy Spirit, and that interference(s) from the bishop’s wife is highly
prohibited.
In
conclusion, be aware that the series on “Abuse of office of Bishop” had been
the writer’s effort in highlighting the biblical principles that go with the
Episcopal office, as well as a means of discouraging those despicable practices
which charlatans and impostors bring to it. In the series, the part one gives a
general spotlight on the subject –matter, whereas, the part two harps on the
importance of God’s calling and good education for the prospective bishop. The
part three in the line –up which is now before the reader takes care of the
conscious or unconscious interference that often come from the bishop’s wife
which in turn brings a damaging effect on the system, and also suggests a way
out of the problem. By this, therefore, the writer hands –out a piece of
advice, urging to reader to assist in the noble task of restoring the lost
glory of the Episcopal Institution. DELAY
IS DANGEROUS.

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